Photo courtesy of Flickr user gotplaid?You're sitting in the morning rush hour traffic and
instead of thinking about the
wonderful day ahead and all of the
great things you're going to
accomplish that day you've got some or all of the following
bouncing around your head:
- Look at this traffic, I could be getting more done if I telecommuted from home. My boss just doesn't get it.
- There's no reason I need to be there at 9 o'clock to do what I do. The owners just don't get it.
- Bet we're going to have another meeting to discuss the meeting about setting up a meeting about the meeting. They could do all this online. My team just doesn't get it.
- Instead of wasting my time blabbering at my desk and calling me on the phone every couple of minutes, they could just e-mail me. My co-workers just don't get it.
- They just don't get it...
- ...they just don't get it!
The truth is: you're right. They just don't get it. And if you're in a job that
doesn't benefit from creativity, I've got bad news for you:
you're screwed. But you already knew that.
I know there are
plenty of articles on the Internet about
how to convince your employer to let you
telecommute by laying out the "what's in it for them" benefits.
I also know there are
plenty of articles out there that help you
get the dialog started with your employer about
changing your working hours with the promise of your increased productivity.
We live in the real world, folks. Unless you work with absolutely amazing and open minded people, the only discussion you typically have with your employer regarding your employment is the one where you state
how you will improve your performance by the time your next review rolls around.All of those articles you find on the Internet about switching to the telecommuting life, changing your schedule or getting your co-workers to communicate on a more efficient level
are nothing more than successful self-employed individuals subtly rubbing your nose in their own success.See, the creative mind is such a blessing, but it comes at a price. Think of the creative mind as a bird. When you cage it with protocol and confine it with a schedule, it rarely sings. What's worse, when it does sing, the song is melancholy and never lifts the spirits. Add another creative mind to that cage and the two birds will sing more often, but mostly about how much
they hate being caged.So what is the trick to getting the most out of the creative mind?
The trick to keep it nourished enough so that it doesn't start to chew on its own sanity? Convince it into thinking its not caged at all.
Change your perception of the situation.
Ask yourself: "Why do I keep this job and not just walk away and do what it is I really want to do for a living?" The answer is going to be something along the lines of, "I have bills to pay and a family to take care of."
You're damned right. But what if instead of looking at where you are as being
trapped without options, you were to look at it as a stepping stone to where
you're supposed to be? Sort of like the "someday lawyer" waiting tables at the Friday's near campus to help pay for school. Bump into Joe and ask him what he's doing these days and he'll tell you: "Just started my second year of law school," and then he
might mention his waiter gig as, "waiting tables off-campus
to get by."
And there's the key phrase:
"to get by." There's a
plan in place. Working at Friday's
isn't the final destination, it's just a
means to keep money in the pocket while he attends law school to
become a lawyer.
But what about those of us who aren't pursuing a career through higher education?Bill works as an office assistant at a company that employs roughly 50 workers. He would
love to be doing
custom desktop publishing work for his own clients and making a markup on the printing, but if you ask Bill what he does and you'll probably get, "I'm an office assistant over at XYZ, Inc. I handle scheduling and sales material fulfillment for the Director of Sales." Pretty cut and dry.
Save that answer for the owner who doesn't know your name at the company Christmas party.You need to
incorporate your long term goal into the
perception of your job! If Bill thought it was even
remotely possible to run his own desktop publishing business, his answer would have been: "
Right now I'm working as an office assistant for the Director of Sales over at XYZ, Inc.
to get by while I
learn the ins and outs of the
printing industry. I'm trying to get a clear understanding of what publishing needs are of today's businesses
before breaking into the desktop publishing market."
Think about
what you do for a living and what you'd
rather be
doing for a living, and try
spinning your job description into a
statement of plan rather than just a dry statement of fact. Easier said than done?
You bet. Since you're not where you want to be as of yet (walking the walk), it
feels like you're lying.That's why
I strongly suggest you print yourself
business cards. I'm talking about
your name, your career
choice right there in
black and white on a little 2" x 3 1/2" card. There is no point in trying to
change your perception of your current situation if
you're not able to explain it to someone else.It's amazing how much
confidence you gain by being able to reach into your coat pocket (or purse) and pull out a little printed card that just
confirmed everything you just said out loud.Think of the last time someone handed you a business card. I bet you didn't look at it and think, "I bet this guy isn't
really a mobile phone salesman."
Be reasonable with your job title. If your plan is to someday be President of the United States and that's what you have printed on your card, you might as well write "Come see me on stage Thursday at the Comedy Shack" on the back.
(I'm not here to dash your dreams, so if being President is your true goal, perhaps "Candidate for President 2012" is the appropriate title.)Now
don't expect fortune to befall you overnight by changing your perception of where you are and where you are going in your career. What you're accomplishing here is a
gradual return to sanity while putting yourself on the path of a
self-fulfilling prophecy.
You're building
confidence while
gaining contacts. What started as a
handshake and an exchanging of cards at the coffee shop
turns into an e-mail asking for some quick advice in your area of expertise, then eventually a
referral for a side job for extra money and a
reference in your portfolio. Before you know it you're building a
client base, forming a
business plan, securing
financing, and
starting your own business.
Thanks to the new found
success, when you hand out business cards you're telling people what you're doing
now instead of what you're
planning to do.
Funny how things come full circle.Labels: business advice, career advice, creative mind, creativity, job advice, positive thinking, sanity, self help, self improvement, starting your own business, success tip